8/13/98 Misc. column; as seen in The Stranger Things To Learn and Do AS PROMISED three weeks ago, here's the official Misc. list of the 64 arts and sciences a modern person should learn; as inspired by one of the nonsexual parts of the Kama Sutra. (Here's the original passage; here's how to get the whole book.) I'm not claiming to be an expert on all of these, or any. They're just things I, and some of you, feel folks oughta know a little better, in no particular order: Appreciating different aromas, textures, and tastes. Discerning the difference between Ritz and Hi-Hos. Rudimentary knowledge of a foreign language. Intelligent discourse with persons of other subcultures. Hosting a successful party. Dancing (Lindy hop, Virginia reel, tap, lap). Holding your liquor; preventing or relieving hangovers. Personal health and hygeine; including brushing and flossing. Contraception and STD prevention. Chemistry; including different pharmaceuticals' good/bad effects. Tanning without burning. Posture and bearing; preventing carpal-tunnel syndrome. At least one athletic or semi-athletic activity (downhill skiing, swimming, yoga, step aerobics, bowling, bicycling, Buns of Steel). One or more social games (poker, Scrabble, Twister, pinball, foosball, Quake, street hockey, et al.). Knowledge of the major professional sports (other than wrestling). Food preparation and storage; knowing how long to microwave a leftover pizza slice. Dining for pleasure, not merely for sustenance. Creating unusual food combinations (peanut butter on mashed potatoes). Discernment of fine yet reasonably-priced liquors and beers. Knowledge of agriculture, food technology, and the dangers of fad diets. Architecture and civic planning. Home building and repair. Interior design and/or Feng Shui. Gardening; mulching and composting. Acquaintance with U.S. and world literature, art, comics, film, theater, TV, and periodicals. Knowledge of the world's assorted cultures, philosophies, and religions. Music theory and history; awareness of at least one country singer other than Patsy Cline. Awareness of the natural environment of your home and the larger world. Awareness of the history, politics and economics of your home and the larger world. Political action and organizing. Dealing with corporate and governmental bureaucracies. Judging people not by the color of their skin, but by the color of their lip gloss. Inquisitive skepticism toward public, political, and commercial speech. Holding your own amid hostile situations (i.e. workplaces, playgrounds). When to engage in verbal self-defense; when to keep your big flap shut. Value shopping; bargaining and haggling. Cordial relations with neighbors, relatives, and postal workers. Politely yet firmly declining the entreaties of proselytizers and telemarketers. Being nice to young children without letting them walk all over you. Caring for and feeding pets (biological or virtual). Getting along with housemates, lovers, cubicle mates, or bandmates without killing one another or even wanting to. Social negotiation and consensus-building (deciding which film to see or which pitcher to get at happy hour). Falling in love hard; falling out of love soft. Developing a healthy self-esteem, not an unhealthy egomania. Reinventing oneself every few years, a la Madonna or George Carlin. Personal discipline (getting to the center of a Tootsie Pop without biting). An area of knowledge associated with a different ethnicity or gender (for a man, Barbara Cartland novels; for an African American, butoh). Fashion design, selection, color-coordination, accessorizing, and repair. Sorting laundry. Programming a VCR and remote (not that hard, really!). Personal law (wills, contracts, income tax, warranties, et al.) Improving or repairing your credit. Packing a carry-on suitcase. Traversing your city via public transportation; reading a timetable. Solving crossword and jigsaw puzzles. Short-term weather forecasting. Ability on a musical instrument (including the voice). At least one of thevisual arts(painting, drawing, calligraphy, photography, cinematography, videography, Photoshop). Rudimentary computer usage. Desiging a website with no annoying "construction signs" or bad MIDI music. "Netiquette": Writing e-mails to the point, but not too pointedly. Grammar and spelling; knowing the difference between "its" and "it's." Composing effective thank-you notes, resumes and cover letters, yearbook salutations, personal ads, and responses to threatened legal actions. Dressing and grooming for various occasions (seductions, funerals, job interviews, Halloween). Magic tricks and parlor games. A healthy sense of humor; jokes and anecdotes for all occasions. A repertoire of film, music, and TV trivia. How to tell different types of trees from a far distance. Number one--the larch.... Some Reader Suggestions Subject: A Dying Art Form! Sent: 7/27/98 12:57 PM Received: 7/27/98 10:27 PM From: maria stadtmueller, stadt@seanet.com To: clark@speakeasy.org "knowing the difference between `its,' the neuter singular possessive pronoun, and `it's,' the contraction." Hope the neuter part doesn't exclude it from a Kama Sutra list. Maria T. Stadtmueller ----------------------- Subject: 64 Arts for the Modern Person Sent: 7/27/98 9:20 AM Received: 7/27/98 12:45 PM From: erinn kauer, eakamouse@webtv.net To: clark@speakeasy.org Interesting topic. All modern persons should bone up (no pun intended) on the various methods of BIRTH CONTROL. To include: proper condom etiquette, taking the pill on time, abstinence, getting off without actually having intercouse, and covering one's butt by always having a supply of the newly available emergency contraceptive pills (actually just the regular pill, taken within 72 hours of unprotected intercourse, it reduces the chance of actual conception by about 75%... this is not RU486, and does not abort anything, it just does not allow the conception to take place). PLEASE include this particular item in your list, there would be far less unwanted pregnancies occuring, either resulting in having the child because the misguided fool believes so strongly that abortion in wrong (like having a child unprepared and setting them up in this world on a shaky base is right) or in having the costly and scary and stigmatizing abortion and suffering needless guilt because of it. However, abortion is not the end of the world, and should be seriously considered if all other options are not viable at that point. Please call the FDA at 301/827-4260 and ask for Lisa D. Rarick for more info on the 72 hour emergency contraception pill, or 1-800-NOT2LATE, or your local pharmacy. Do not let the pharmacy give you any bullshit about having to get it through your doctor, it is available WITHOUT a prescription and is perfectly legal, etc, etc, etc. I found that my pharmacy balked at the notion, but this has only recently been approved and they are simply not used to it yet. They need to be shaken though, they are needlessly telling people to go through their doctor, but you DO NOT HAVE TO, this should be available OVER THE COUNTER. Besides contraception, folks of the modern age should study organic gardening, meditation (stress-buster, dream fulfiller, life lengthener), keep an eye on politics and actually know something about the world and the U.S. of A., and how to make a good latte... I am sure there is much more, and my list is pretty lame, but the CONTRACEPTION/ FAMILY PLANNING is extremely important. Thanks for hearing me out! Erinn Kauer / eakamouse P.S. Concert ettiquette, Gourmet Camping, and the fine art of bodybuilding (look good now AND later!). Whatever. Bye.

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